If we can make a correct choice, then happiness is grasped in our hands. In order to make a correct choice you need to make the estimate of precision on the result in future. Unfortunately, psychologist points out, when we predict our emotion state in the future, there will appear 5 kinds of deviations very easily. While the good news is that the result of mental research points out, this 5 kinds of deviations can as much as possible be lowered. To understand and rememberthis 5 kinds of deviations can let you get more happiness while making a choice.
★ Differentiation deviation
----How to avoid this kind of deviation?
Neglect the habitual judgment. The direct condition is usually a little bit difficult. Because it is like to compare the weight of apple and orange, the essence are different things so you can’t make the comparison on amount . We should concentrate on listing the merit and shortcoming of each project, then make comprehensive judgment on the foundation of these merit and shortcoming.
★ Emotion deviation
---How to avoid this kind of deviation?
For predicting most accurately what decision would make us feel cheerful. We need to write down the emotion on the paper when we decide. If the emotion when we make a decision is vastly different from the happy emotion we want to get in the future, then the decision we make will be more worse.
★ Influence deviation
----How to avoid this kind of deviation?
The first, loosen the focus of your judgment on the future affairs; remember even if the occurrence of other affairses equally will give you tie and interference. The second, remember reasonably lower your emotional influence on the future things.
★ Memory deviation
---How to avoid this kind of deviation?
Recall the various past experiences, not only recall the experience of a same kind affair, this way can help you get compromising result. In the meantime, you also need to try best to realize your memory (positive or passive) on that affairs.
★ Conviction deviation
----How to avoid this kind of deviation?
There is research suggesting that the conviction deviation depends on our cognition degree toward those convictions. So when you read here, then remember above deviations will make you do a false choice. Therefore, hereafter whenever you make a choice you should ask youself first whether you make above mistakes.