I am 28 years old , me and my husband had 2 kids before we were only 25,a girl and a boy, one is 4 years ,and other is 3 .We are the same age, we loved each other very much,but we got a divorce 2 months ago,that was heart broken,anger,suffering. . . one day I took his clothes to wash I found a condemn in his pocket of his jacket. . .suddenly. my tears came up. . .cuz we never use condemns . . .after I knew he cheated on me, I tried very hard not to make him realise the difference of me ,or notice anything, I acted normal, make breakfast everyday in the morning, and take dogs out for a walk with my two kids while he was at work.but that woman called me one day said that my husband didnt love me anymore ,and loved her ,he was gonna marry her..said she was his colleage.blahblahblah. . . my mind went completely blank. . .I said :if that's true, I would put him in a box and send him to ur place prepaid!" and I hang up . . but I knew it was true... found that I can't hide this anymore. . I never thought about this shit would happen to me cuz we love each other so much ,we love dogs ,we love our kids so much ,we listened to the same music, we both like travelling. . .we promised we would never break apart. . but that was all bullshit right now!I have to make him choose :family or woman.
That night he came home ,I took my 2 kids back to my sister's house, I was the only one at home, I told him about the call.. .he looked at me for a while .and said:sorry!. . . I said what do you mean sorry?that's what I got from you?I did everything for you ,and you gave me this ?embarasse me in front of my friends and family that I said that you were a good man ,good husband, good father?!Ur a jerk! what a shame!. . . my heart was teared apart. . . I couldnt believe this happened to me.. . he didn;t tried to say anything to save this family, he just said sorry. .. and then went back to the bedroom. . .I tried not to cry in front of him.. .but I couldn't. . I was thinking. . . that was not a big deal that he left me. . .but what about my kids. . my 2 beautiful angels .I dont' want them to ask about where their father is everyday. . .and kids need fathers especially from 3 years old.. . I don't want them to be like me grow up without the love and pretoction of a father...
I couldnt take this. . so everyday I go online and try to find some useful words or cases,to tell my kids about the divorce, and I found that http://bit.ly/4divorce helped me alot,II feel much better right now. . .and I am gonna tell my kids this weekend about this. hope this site would help you guys.