Who is perfect is God, and ordinary people in some areas will always provoke other people. Even if you are extremely smooth, there are no ball thorns, there are always people disliking you, and this is the delicate humanity. Today interpersonal relations have been seen as a form of art, which has too much knowledge. Everyone is trying to find a shortcut to enable people’s communication easier. Where is this road? Let’s search it from an old hand.
If the two personalities are like fire, when encountering friction or dispute it is very prone to explosion, the final result can only be a lose-lose, so that benefits no one. But if one side is willing to take a step back, willing to play the role of water, the result is bound to be more optimistic, I believe that "fire" will ultimately be controled "water".
Perhaps you every day contact with a stranger. Remember, no matter how other people's appraisal to him, you do not bring any bias to him, you can assume that he is friendly, then he is likely to be your friend.
When have altercation with others you should take the initiative and "saysorry" to others, greet, and learn to explore the bright spot on others and learn to accommodate his shortcomings, so that mentality will be able to be put balance and when doing things you will be more active.
When facing nasty people who you can not understand and have relationships of deadlock, you can try the following points:
1, standing on each other's point of view, see more the advantages of others, rather than hold and bite the shortcomings; learn to be tolerant.
2, respect each other, care for each other, more praise each other, and do not be unwilling to open your mouth.
3, get along with the strong and aggressive people then do not mind their words, in addition to the degrading words, which you should protest.
4, when the relationship is in deterioration or deadlock, you must take the initiative to express friendship, not take care too much of your face and feeling embarrassed.
5, do not be too tough, if the other side like rubbing meal, then invite him to rub the meal in private to improve relations.
6, interpersonal communication skills are very important, and interpersonal ability to adapt is more important, so learn to build the calm mindset.