Probably you will be proud of having friends sharing common interest with deep feelings.But sometimes you probably will be in distress and perplexity for friends gradual neglecting.You don't have much great misunderstanding and antinomy with the friend's, why the friendship downplay?Its reason may come from every aspect but if your attention kept on following kinds of mindsets, you will make the comity get continuous consolidation.
a) Act properly, the speech talks be careful, don't make the friend's sense of pride suffered from injury.
Probably you have friendly intercourse with friend, in each other's confidence, probably you of ability and learning, looks.The family, and prospect...etc. make the person envy. These beneficial conditions may make you don't divide situation, particularly with a friend together. You also have no scruples about showing yourself.The speech talks usually show unintentionally a kind of obvious sense of superiority, this will other person feel you are occupying vantage pointing ground to talk to the person and have intention to show to jack up oneself and make the other people's sense of pride suffered from injury, and produce respect and be far viewpoint.So, while associating with friend, control emotion, keep rational, attitude humbleness, modest as if in valley, put oneself equal position, and notice always thought of the existence of the other party,looks after the mental acceptance of the other part.
b) Peg out each other, keep contract, don't make the friend produce to guard against mental state to you
The friend's usually shares everything they has, but, if to the friend's thing, not through admit, then take to use without authorization, and don't cherish, sometimes slowly don't return or simply don't return, as time grew, then will make the friend think you too unbridled, from here creation guard against mental state, and probably cause you the alienation of relation.Actually, the friend's in addition to friendship, also have a kind of delicate contract relation.In regard to thing, you and friend's things can use at any time, this is to outrun the place of ordinary people's relation.But you to the friend’s things should have awaken understanding:"The friend's thing should is doubledmore to take good care of."To see things of friend as a part of making the friendship and pay attention to it. Obey the rules of contacts would make the friend trust you forever.
c) Avoid desultoriness, pay attention to minor point of conduct, don't make the friend produce contempt, bad impression to you
The friend's, the manner of speaking behavior should keep a rate, generous, benignity, not crumple to build, only it such shows natural true colors.But if too scattered, not self-made, bumbling, then make the person feel you stupid and vulgar.Probably you get along with ordinary people will with reasonableness, but gathers together with friend and then forget these rules, or point here and there, or make statements freely without careful or without restraint interrupt the friend's words.Probably this is the nature being you show unintentionally, but as time grew, the friend will feel you are in disgrace and have no cultivation, bring about the feeling of a kind of abhorrence contempt on you, change to your original impression.So, you should keep not lose naturally self-respect in friend's front, keep passionate, attain proper restraint, with forbearance, then can win a friend lasting comity.