Good psychological quality is necessity in the wide range of social activities that people carry out, but also the premise that make language skills, communication be brought into full play. On the contrary, poor mental state, will form a barrier of some membranes to a certain extent, discouraging people from making friends and adapting to social statements. Therefore, we should focus on self-cultivation in working life, and strive to overcome all kinds of interpersonal morbid mentality.
1. Inferiority Complex: Some people are prone to an inferiority complex, or even look down on themselves, lack of proper self-confidence, can not bring their advantages and strong points into full play. People with a feeling of inferiority will act in social interaction without courage, accustomed to simply repeating what others said, without their own minds. Such a mentality not changed, may gradually wear and tear people's courage, perseverance and unique personality.
2. Cowardice psychology: mainly seen in the inexperienced, shallow, introverted, non-articulate person. Cowardice hinder the realization of plans and ideas. Cowardice psychology is the rope binding thought and behavior thus it should be discarded.
3. Suspicion psychology: people with suspicion psychology often like to scan each other and look on external things with an untrust vision; often think someone is speaking ill of their own when see other people talk. People with the addiction of suspicion often listen to hearsay, and complicate matters by making irresponsible remarks, the result can only be asking for trouble for themself, harm others and themselves.
4. Reverse psychology: Some people always love to wrangle with others, and take it as an indication of their unconventional. On any matter, regardless of the rights and wrongs, he is always saying the opposite. Reverse psychology is easier to blur the boundaries of the rights and wrongs, and often engender resentment and disgust.
5. Exclusive psychology: human’s own knowledge, experience and ways of thinking and so on, must be constantly updated, otherwise it will lose its vitality, and even produce negative effects. The psychological exclusion just ignore this point, it presents itself as too conservative, refused to expand thinking, and making people make the round of circle in the self-imposed isolation narrow space.
6. Mercenary psychology: Some people believe that the purpose to make friends is "mutual advantage", so they just make friends with those who are useful to them and who give themselves the benefit, and often " kick down the ladder." This mercenary psychology in interpersonal communication will make their own personality undermined.