I suggest that you start with some questions to know where you at in your knowledge of men communication: Is it hard for you to get a clear picture of how your man sees things? Does he often pretend that things are fine while displaying a face that says otherwise? Do you feel fear from not knowing what's on his mind? Is it really hard for him to open up? Do all men go close up in that type of situation? Do you wish that you knew how to crack the code of how men function?
Beauty as we perceive it is largely a projection of our needs and beautiful objects or persons simply cater to our idealizations or fancies and reflect our natural need to relate to all that is appealing. Human beings are controlled by the senses and we tend to repeat processes or experiences that appeal to the senses, that are harmonious and have structure and form. Beauty appeals to our sense of sight so there is a preference for repeating the experience of beauty.
Yes, looks do play an important role in attracting a mate, and you should put a bit of effort into making sure you look your best when you step out. But it's not always the stereotypical concept of beauty that wins. A woman who is attractive in her own right, but who is also charming, charismatic and warm, is sure to appeal to men. And it's hard to beat a great smile. It may seem cliché to say you need to have a great personality, but this does have much merit. After all, without personality, what are you offering?
You want be supportive of him at all times. This includes if he wants to go out with the guys and not bring you along. It also means toning down the jealousy and being understanding of his point of view. As long as you are both enjoying the relationship and the time you spend together it will not be long before he really starts feeling the love.
What do you have to do to make a guy go crazy over you? How do you turn his feelings of affection into feelings of love? Being able to attract men is easy but knowing how to make a man fall in love is much more difficult. Men are notoriously difficult to read and they are rarely in touch with their own emotions. They often mistake feelings of passion for feelings of love and think that they are in love whenever they see a girl they are attracted to, but getting a man to develop real feelings of love can take time.
You will also find that you have more energy to attract him. When relationships become too intertwined, both people can feel like something is missing, not because the love is not there, but because they stop respecting the other person's difference. I call this the two-headed ogre syndrome. Each head tries to pull the same body in a different direction, and so any difference becomes a source of conflict.